They don’t come with horns. They come with charm.
Narcissists are masters of illusion — and darling, the trick isn’t seeing them... it’s recognizing the games they play.
Here’s your survival guide — velvet gloves on, dagger sharp underneath.
🎭 1. Love Bombing
The Setup:
They flood you with attention, praise, gifts, and promises. It's not romance — it’s bait.
Response:
Don’t confuse intensity with intimacy. When it’s too much, too soon — pause. Power listens to its gut, not its cravings.
2. Mirror Mirroring
The Setup:
They become everything you desire. Your taste in music. Your values. Your goals. It’s not connection — it’s mimicry.
Response:
Ask deeper questions. Watch for inconsistencies. Real people surprise you. Narcissists perform you.
🧠 3. Gaslighting
The Setup:
They twist your memories. Make you question your instincts. It’s not disagreement — it’s psychological warfare.
Response:
Write it down. Keep track. Trust your journal over their revision. A sharp mind is a narcissist’s worst enemy.
🎯 4. The Push-Pull Game
The Setup:
Hot and cold. One day you're a goddess, the next you're invisible. It’s not confusion — it’s control.
Response:
Don’t chase clarity from chaos. Walk. Power doesn’t beg to be noticed.
💌 5. The Guilt Hook
The Setup:
They make you feel like the villain. For saying no. For having boundaries. For choosing peace over them.
Response:
Guilt is their leash. Your “no” is your crown. Wear it.
💄 Final Word:
Narcissists don’t take your power — they wait for you to give it away.
So don’t.
You’re not here to be adored by illusions.
You’re here to choose—and walk away glowing when something doesn’t serve you.
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